One of the place in the world where i usually forget me and also the world around is a beach! Iam sure many reading this wuld immediately agree. The waves, winds and the silent murmor of the shore all gives our mind the calmnesss and the heart a refreshment.
All along i never thought anyother thing about the sea because i loved it. Today on visting soue relationship, the third cases ou some of todays beaches a sudden thought has disturbed. Is these beaches a source of our life"s important lesson?
Why is that? Though we have always loved the beaches, but it is used today as a dumpyard for the drinage system. We never mind that because we love it and immediately a day it stinks, nobody goes near that?
Rather we start complaining about it!
Does this signfies in our lyf, either we dont take time to decide our future as to whether is it a drinage or beach. Or do we not taking time for not maintaning our loved ones on the over ambitious material comfort.? Or is the hurry in getting on relationships makes even a dumpyard looks like a beach and we only reliase late its a dumpyard?
All the three may be true but the first two are at your disposal options and wich if not done should be a crime in tr
The third case, i believe you shd try to convert the dumpyard atleast not stinking to the world, hough pratically converting it as beach is expedition.
In this case one has to be very careful of not being sucked into the dumpyard!
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Monday, November 29, 2010
Better not to know! is it a truth now!
Is it what we feel often " Better not to know" or a different thought?
In the era of information technology, when the happening around the world is at your finger tips. Most of the time, especially in relationships, i feel blessed of not knowing things which other person speaks/ does in my absence.
These information mostly makes us to have a biased view on the relationship and person. We would have been definitely better both mentally and otherwise without having knowledge of these informations. The situation would worsen when the other person does not know about the back-hide speeches.
These situation has been very frequent, specifically it has almost a day to day affair, when people around wants to grow fastest.!
I was in a moment of shock for several times, hopefully i havent given this kind of shock to many! ( to my conscious, as i seldom like talking about others). These moment of shock would definitely make your opinion biased on these people.
I was astonished when someone mentioned that " nobody has achieved without indulging in these back-hiding talks!" (specially in corporate growth)
After all these, still having a greater belief in the relationship and the person requires a greater task of mind, not through heart, though! As hearts seldom accepts these people.
Now, i started thinking that iam blessed not to know these "back-hide" speeches either good or bad. Alteast, a person who shares relationship through heart and not through mind, would put your heart to a better rest!
In the era of information technology, when the happening around the world is at your finger tips. Most of the time, especially in relationships, i feel blessed of not knowing things which other person speaks/ does in my absence.
These information mostly makes us to have a biased view on the relationship and person. We would have been definitely better both mentally and otherwise without having knowledge of these informations. The situation would worsen when the other person does not know about the back-hide speeches.
These situation has been very frequent, specifically it has almost a day to day affair, when people around wants to grow fastest.!
I was in a moment of shock for several times, hopefully i havent given this kind of shock to many! ( to my conscious, as i seldom like talking about others). These moment of shock would definitely make your opinion biased on these people.
I was astonished when someone mentioned that " nobody has achieved without indulging in these back-hiding talks!" (specially in corporate growth)
After all these, still having a greater belief in the relationship and the person requires a greater task of mind, not through heart, though! As hearts seldom accepts these people.
Now, i started thinking that iam blessed not to know these "back-hide" speeches either good or bad. Alteast, a person who shares relationship through heart and not through mind, would put your heart to a better rest!
Blogging after sometime - Nov 10 - One liners
பகலை நோக்கி,
இரவின் பயணம்,
- தூக்கம்!
மௌனத்தின் குமறல்கள்!
- உணர்சிகள்!
மனதின் பதற்றம்!
- குற்றம்!
இரவின் பயணம்,
- தூக்கம்!
மௌனத்தின் குமறல்கள்!
- உணர்சிகள்!
மனதின் பதற்றம்!
- குற்றம்!
Friday, May 7, 2010
Manali - "Beautiful" - manali
It took us just 2 secs (tou we sat for 2 hrs inside the cab, winds...winds...and only wind noise) to realise, we are at 13000 ft above sea levels and in a snow plain
With traditional yaks - beast but soft
Not a fancy dress - but turned out to be in 2 mins - "traditional himachali wears"
Wow - near the zero point - "we are informed that China border is neary by"
With traditional yaks - beast but soft
Not a fancy dress - but turned out to be in 2 mins - "traditional himachali wears"
Wow - near the zero point - "we are informed that China border is neary by"
At one of the lower snow points - called as waterfalls - matter inside least to be explained
My marraiage photos - just a quick snap
Marriage on April 11, 2010
Engagement on April 10, 2010
Reception on April 10,2010
Engagement on April 10, 2010
One of the memorable moment - arranged by my friends "talk of the marriage"
My family - the closest and heartiest
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Living the life with what it offers!
Suprised by the title! Hold on! Iam not any near to a philospher or spiritual leader! Its just that i lived for 27 years, and as do for u, life has tot me some lessons. One of the importatnt thing that i tot of sharing with some of my closest is written below. [Not very sure whether the same is being shared by some experts].
Every crucial moment a human is provided with two oppurtunities, one that reaches him and the other that he wanted to fectch.
The examples could be things like choosing your electives in higher secondary (you may aspire science vs ending up joining arts), choosing of carrier fields ( you may want to pursue finance vs. ending up in taxes), choosing of our partner ( least to be explained :-).
Always, our psychology makes us to ignore those reaches us but make us to run towards the factor that we want to fetch. This means that the thing that reaches us ( with some efforts) is given lesser importance and the one that we want to fetch ( with uncertainity on achieving) assumes more importance and value.
In my view, this factor of "fetching" has made us to run towards the future! is it bad!? Not very bad indeed, but currently this run has become endless, and the same is making us to forget or relinqush the present. From my point of view, though not consciously till date, i have learnt to accept the oppurtunities that "reaches" and always "treated fetching as an option".
Its a time that i have started thinking, whether the acceptance of "reaching oppurtunities" should also be concious, especially after going through two rough patches of my "fetched oppurtunities" on profession and personal life.
The other reason for me to think about acceptance is that "fectching", if not frutified, creates pain both emotionally and physically, this creates an adversity towards the oppurtunity (end result) itself. How could one imagine, the roughness of roads resulting in avoiding the enjoyment of destination ?.
Iam not advocating a principle that we should not strive and try for the best, the point that is that enjoy the best that you get, inorder to equip yourself for an enjoyment "to be fetched".
"Life provides oppurnities, learn to accept, to rebuild either from sucess/ failures"
Every crucial moment a human is provided with two oppurtunities, one that reaches him and the other that he wanted to fectch.
The examples could be things like choosing your electives in higher secondary (you may aspire science vs ending up joining arts), choosing of carrier fields ( you may want to pursue finance vs. ending up in taxes), choosing of our partner ( least to be explained :-).
Always, our psychology makes us to ignore those reaches us but make us to run towards the factor that we want to fetch. This means that the thing that reaches us ( with some efforts) is given lesser importance and the one that we want to fetch ( with uncertainity on achieving) assumes more importance and value.
In my view, this factor of "fetching" has made us to run towards the future! is it bad!? Not very bad indeed, but currently this run has become endless, and the same is making us to forget or relinqush the present. From my point of view, though not consciously till date, i have learnt to accept the oppurtunities that "reaches" and always "treated fetching as an option".
Its a time that i have started thinking, whether the acceptance of "reaching oppurtunities" should also be concious, especially after going through two rough patches of my "fetched oppurtunities" on profession and personal life.
The other reason for me to think about acceptance is that "fectching", if not frutified, creates pain both emotionally and physically, this creates an adversity towards the oppurtunity (end result) itself. How could one imagine, the roughness of roads resulting in avoiding the enjoyment of destination ?.
Iam not advocating a principle that we should not strive and try for the best, the point that is that enjoy the best that you get, inorder to equip yourself for an enjoyment "to be fetched".
"Life provides oppurnities, learn to accept, to rebuild either from sucess/ failures"
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