Living the life with what it offers!

Suprised by the title! Hold on! Iam not any near to a philospher or spiritual leader! Its just that i lived for 27 years, and as do for u, life has tot me some lessons. One of the importatnt thing that i tot of sharing with some of my closest is written below.  [Not very sure whether the same is being shared by some experts]. 

Every crucial moment a human is provided with two oppurtunities, one that reaches him and the other that he wanted to fectch. 

The examples could be things like choosing your electives in higher secondary (you may aspire science vs ending up joining arts), choosing of carrier fields ( you may want to pursue finance vs. ending up in taxes), choosing of our partner ( least to be explained :-).  

Always, our psychology makes us to  ignore those reaches us but make us to run towards the factor that we want to fetch.  This means that the thing that reaches us ( with some efforts) is given lesser importance and the one that we want to fetch ( with uncertainity on achieving) assumes more importance and value.

In my view, this factor of "fetching" has made us to run towards the future! is it bad!?  Not very bad indeed, but currently this run has become endless, and the same is making us to forget or relinqush the present.  From my point of view, though not consciously till date, i have learnt to accept the oppurtunities that "reaches" and always "treated fetching as an option". 

Its a time that i have started thinking, whether the acceptance of "reaching oppurtunities" should also be concious, especially after going through two rough patches of my "fetched oppurtunities" on profession and personal life.  

The other reason for me to think about acceptance is that "fectching", if not frutified, creates pain both emotionally and physically, this creates an adversity towards the oppurtunity (end result) itself.  How could one imagine, the roughness of roads resulting in avoiding the enjoyment of destination ?. 

Iam not advocating a principle that we should not strive and try for the best, the point that is that enjoy the best that you get, inorder to equip yourself for an enjoyment "to be fetched". 

"Life provides oppurnities, learn to accept, to rebuild either from sucess/ failures"